Are you ready to romanticize your life as a college student this semester?
Much like the Gilmore Girls, romanticizing your life involves embracing the small moments, cultivating a cozy, thoughtful lifestyle, and enjoying the quirks and challenges of daily life.
Learn how you, too, can romanticize your life every hour of the school day by not sweating the small stuff.
Life is going to life regardless, so why not find a bit of joy in it as much as we can?
There are plenty of places that you’d probably rather be than in a classroom, but romanticizing your life will help you make the most of it.
Become the main character of a world that only you can create by turning simple, everyday moments into something special.
From cozy study spots, aesthetic stationery, book lists to OOTDs (outfit of the days), coffee rituals, and solo dates.
There are many ways you can catch a vibe and romanticize your life starting today.
How do I start romanticizing my life?
Reflect on the things we often take for granted. Maybe it’s waking up to the voice of a family member or greeting your favorite clerk at a local cafe.
What about the flower garden you pass on the way to class, without stopping to admire their beauty? Or the jog you take on a scenic trail that’s drowned out by music?
It could even be the ‘good morning’ text you receive from a close friend that you completely ignore until hours later.
Take inventory of the things and people you would miss if you woke up the next day and they were no longer there.
Practicing mindfulness is the first step to romanticizing your life.
Mindfulness activities focus on being present at the moment and fully engaged with whatever you’re doing.
They allow you to observe your thoughts and feelings without judgment.
Select a few mindfulness activities to practice every week until they become a part of your daily routine.
Once you shift your mindset and appreciate the importance of being present, romanticizing your life will be a breeze.
What are some daily habits or routines that you can romanticize before and after class?
College campuses are typically huge, with tons of cute and cozy study spots to make your own.
It could be a local cafe, a place in the student library, or the student recreation center with a pleasant view.
Find a building or a few quiet places on your campus that are visually appealing with a tranquil vibe, then add it to your daily routine.
Do you enjoy watching sports teams practice, listening to the choir sing, or like going for a swim at the gym every now and then? Make time for it on your schedule.
Don’t skip the small things that make you smile because some people may deem them less important.
If you enjoy the smell of freshly baked goods at a local restaurant, add it to your walking route or drop in every once in a while.
Wake up a little earlier to get dolled up and put on something nice for a confidence booster.
Who said you can no longer dress fiercely for work or school?
Be a fearless showstopper wherever you go.
When you romanticize your life, you’ll prioritize simple daily rituals and care more about how you show up in the world and make your mark on it.
Sometimes we get too carried away worrying about the mundane and what the outcome will be when we reach a daily goal.
We’ve all fallen short of not living in the moment. Now it’s time to start.
Is it OK to romanticize life?
If you don’t romanticize your life, no one else will. Waiting on the perfect love story, group of friends, and family to live life with may take forever.
And, unfortunately, some people may never experience a life-long friend that’s with you through thick and thin, or marry a romantic partner that’s charming and chivalrous all the time.
Maybe one of your dreams is to have a family of your own one day. Are you going to wait until you have children to buy your dream home or take a trip to Disneyland?
Well, I hope not, goal friends. In life, you must take the good with the bad. Waiting on perfect moments and happy endings may leave you disappointed.
Happy times don’t come as often, so there will be times where you’ll have to create them yourself.
Romanticize your life as much, and as often, as you need to. Don’t wait for anyone else to come along and make your life worth living.
Because when they leave or disappoint you, you’ll be back at square one again.
You don’t have to be a broke college student that’s overworked and stressed all four years of your undergraduate or graduate career.
There are plenty of things you can enjoy on and off campus for free.
One day, you’ll miss learning new concepts, engaging in class debates, staying up late in the dorms, and partying every Thursday.
Jot down your small joys at the end of each day and find ways you can replicate and experience them repeatedly.
How can I enjoy my life as a student?
Set body image goals
Get some fitness inspiration and put a workout plan together that works for you.
You’ll need discipline, so that’s where romanticizing your life comes in.
Have you ever observed the lifestyles of women who wake up and hit the gym for their morning pilates class every day with no excuses?
Well, that could easily be you, goal friend!
Don’t think of working out as a chore, but as a habit to adopt into your daily routine.
Try working out or doing low-impact activities each day for an entire month and record your progress.
I remember starting my fitness journey and almost giving up, because I didn’t see immediate changes.
Before my body goals started rolling in, I felt better and had way more energy from eating smaller, healthier meals throughout the day.
Staying on schedule and eating healthy every day was a challenge at first. Sometimes, I gave into my cravings, but increasing my physical activity kept the extra pounds away.
Months later, I’ve made walking, jogging, and fitness classes a daily habit.
I kept a few fitness pictures on my bedroom wall for motivation, and started looking forward to early morning walks in nature, and trying out fun hobbies like roller skating and tennis to stay active.
If you’re ready to look and feel good on the inside and out, then romanticize your life by prioritizing fitness in your weekly routine. Trust me, you won’t regret it.
Treat yourself
You’re entitled to nice things.
Too often we wait until after we achieve goals or reach certain milestones to make big purchases or treat ourselves to new experiences.
Listen, you have one life to live. You might as well live it to the fullest with no regrets.
Whether you aced your exam, got into the school of your dreams, or broke up with your boyfriend, grab your favorite dessert, treat yourself to a nice dinner, or a weekend getaway trip.
That’s what romanticizing your life means. Taking the good with the bad and finding small moments in between for joy and peace.
Replenish your seasonal wardrobe
The best thing about romanticizing your life is dressing the part.
Who wants to wear the same thing repeatedly, year after year?
Take the risk and switch things up a bit.
You don’t have to follow every single trend, but choose clothes, bags, shoes, and accessories that will elevate your style each season.
Maybe some of your clothes are just no longer in style.
Donate them or purge your closet to make room for a brand new wardrobe.
Add those fall boots to your collection, or replace all your denim with linen. Take the leap.
Start a Pinterest board for fashion inspiration and replicate the styles that showcase exactly who you are.
Make your bedroom aesthetic
A home away from home is what you should strive for while away at college. This also goes for anyone who is still at home or has their own apartment.
Make your room your oasis. Pick a theme, color scheme, home decor and furniture pieces that represent your personality.
As a student, your room should be a safe place to get away from the world.
Room decor is a great way to express who you are, but warm tones, fuzzy rugs, bedding, and your desk set up can really elevate your space.
Your bedroom shouldn’t be cold and uninviting.
It’s a reflection of you, so why not romanticize it? Make it tranquil and a place you’re comfortable spending hours in alone or with friends.
Pick a relaxing study spot
Where do you enjoy studying?
If it’s your bedroom, try not to study while in bed, but at your desk or in a comfy egg chair.
Some students prefer to leave work and school outside of their home, so the library or a quiet building on campus is their go to.
My favorite spot at the college library was during the early afternoon on the second floor, with floor to ceiling windows overlooking the lake.
I loved reading my textbooks there and having lunch outside while watching the waves crash against the rocks.
Some students found shady spots on the lawn or a bench in the courtyard to get some studying in.
Sometimes, grabbing a cozy blanket and laying it underneath your favorite tree for a few hours will do.
Make your study spot scenic so that you’re motivated to take notes and get in a zone where nothing can disrupt your focus.
Plan lunch datES
Now this is a good one!
Don’t be the girl that lets the day get away without a plan. Sure, it’s fun to do things on a whim, but sometimes you have to add romanticizing your life to the agenda.
What’s cuter than leaving class to join your best friend or boyfriend for a quick lunch at your favorite cafe?
Engaging in light-hearted conversation while sitting across from people you care deeply about will always be the highlight of your day.
Returning home to have lunch or cook dinner with your family is another way to romanticize your day.
After hours of lecture halls, completing pop-quizzes, and working on research papers, it’s a break that’s well deserved.
So, set the table, put on some relaxing music, or give your dorm room an ambiance where you and your friends can share a meal and a mood.
Create a playlist for each day
You may already have plenty of playlists to choose from on your phone, but there’s a way to be intentional with your music.
Some people just turn on the radio or listen to a podcast while on the way to class or on their ride back home.
When you think about it, it doesn’t sound that exciting.
For those gloomy days when the sun isn’t shining brightly, you may need to romanticize your life.
Create a playlist with music that will uplift your spirits or put you in a calm mood.
Try to add music from your past that will make you reminisce about your childhood or happier times.
Imagine walking around campus while it’s cold and raining with a big smile on your face.
It’s one of the easiest ways to escape from your reality and romanticize your life.
Schedule time for play
All work and no play have never been good for anyone. That’s why it’s important to cater to your inner child as often as you can.
I’m a firm believer that you’re never too old for anything.
Even at an older age, you can always remain young at heart.
There are 20-somethings and 30-somethings taking trips to Disney, carnivals, gaming, and rocking 90s fashion.
They are taking the reins over their lives and doing activities that they genuinely enjoy.
Instead of measuring up to what society wants you to be, return to your roots, to a time where you were happy – whatever that may mean for you.
Just blocking off time in your weekly schedule to do something fun every week will change your life.
Explore on The weekends
Yes, you need to study on your days off, and it’s important to rest, but a few hours to explore the town or do something new won’t hurt.
Think outside of the box when you’re looking for leisure activities to try.
Sports events and pubs are a part of college culture, but why not do some things where you can learn something, too?
Dance theater, the opera, art museums, food festivals, and architectural tours are available in just about every city.
Take a friend with you and pretend to be tourists for the day. Romanticize your life without breaking the bank!
Follow a morning routine
Morning routines are a must. How you begin your day will essentially determine its outcome.
Wake up before your roommates, watch the sunrise, take a walk and journal outdoors, cook a healthy breakfast, and set aside an hour for a makeup routine that will make you feel confident in class.
Prioritize new connections
Romanticize your life by making it your mission to meet someone new every day.
Introduce yourself to your professor, the teacher’s assistant, and the classmates that sit next to you.
Join a new club, or greet unfamiliar faces while out on the quads.
Get to know your neighbors around the dorm hall and make it a point to hang out in the recreation rooms.
There are countless people to meet when you enroll in college.
They come from various places around the globe, as well as from different cultural backgrounds.
Most campuses are like melting pots filled with student learners.
You can take this once in a lifetime opportunity to network and make valuable friendships that will last forever.
Pick up a hobbY
What projects have you put aside because you no longer have time for them?
Projects like arts and crafts, gardening, sewing, books, and graphic design that you genuinely feel enjoyment from.
No money is involved as a reward, just simple hobbies that allow you to learn and indulge in your creative side.
Romanticize your life by picking them up again.
Your happiness deserves so much more attention than what you give it.
Flirt with a crush
Are you a fan of reading romance books or watching rom-com movies?
Well, just because people say that chivalry is dead doesn’t mean that it has to be your reality.
Flirt with the cute guy in your class and attend some parties knowing that your crush will be there, then make a move.
You only live once, goal friend!
And for those in relationships, make your life a romance movie.
Plan weekly date nights, have some sleepovers, attend tailgating events together, coordinate your Halloween costumes, and take cute photos around campus to become the epitome of ‘couple goals’.
Remember to embrace the beauty in everyday experiences to create your own story, full of warmth, growth, and personal joy. Are you ready to romanticize your life with a daily routine? Grab a copy of the ‘Daily Routine Planner Printable’ here!
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